When away or working in new areas it is a bond we miss and
tend to seek out. We have a work mom or
a school mom or whatever kind of mom comes along. In high school many of us adopted our friends
moms as our own. They watched over us
and protected us when we were around, and we were grateful for that love and
protection. I have three good friends,
who have all lost their mothers over the last couple years, all of them before
we turned 30. This is a loss we still
feel.
We had a drama mom in High School. It was of course our teacher and director
Kathy. We looked up to her and she took
us under her wing and guided us. Adam,
Luke, and I were her disciples and we drank in all she had to teach. We would go over and help with yard work when
needed and she tutored me in MacBeth one summer simply because I wanted to
learn how to understand Shakespeare better.
We are all now working in the creative field and still doing drama. Adam helps take care of the business side of
things with donors and much more I am sure I have no clue about in Florida and
a big theater. Luke works with school
children and is a published author and playwright. I teach theater here at Central and direct
all of our productions. We benefited
from having multiple mothers, who all pulled from us.
Over the last several years we here at Central have pulled
on this concept of a Production mother.
Now, Shane and I do our best, but we don’t bring the same skills sets to
a production that a mother can bring. We
began importing that which we did not have… a local mom. Diane was our first, and she really made an
impact on our kids. She would be there
from start to finish. She came first
practice with cookies or brownies or whatever she had in mind to bake. She passed out cards and ask the actors to
list a prayer concern and their favorite cookie. She collected all the cards and told them she
would be praying for all of them throughout the production. She would come to one practice a week and
bring cookies (somebodies favorite) or juice or something she thought was
little, but made a huge influence on the students. She was available if an actor needed an ear
to listen, or a shoulder to lean on, or just simply a hug. My actors may be college kids, but they still
miss their mommy.
Now, having a production mom every play doesn’t happen. But, on the really hard or more intense
productions, I find a mom in our corner makes for a smoother run with happier
and healthier students. I encourage
anyone, who is taking on a grueling production or consider asking your mom or
any mom for help.
Best Wishes and God Bless,
Chris